I am surprised the latest sex scandals to rock our country actually put me in a good light in the eyes of my wife. The guilty men are top civil servants in Singapore which is known for its squeaky-clean government officials. My wife commented that although I was a boring and unromantic engineer, she is glad that she can put her heart at rest when it comes to such deviant behavior. I do not know whether to laugh or cry. Engineers make faithful husbands not because they are more moral but because they have the least opportunities to stray. Engineers in Singapore are unlikely to be very rich. They face computers and equipments most of the time in the office, have little contact with gorgeous ladies and most do not occupy positions high enough to receive sexual favors. Men who have stayed faithful to their wives are either not rich and powerful enough to be targeted or have little exposure to temptations in their daily lives. I shall not delude myself and take the credit for staying faithful because I am a moral man. What is closer to the truth is that I am a deprived man. In this case, this is a good thing because I am naturally protected from being destroyed by sex scandals and divorces.
It is a pity to have so many talented men throughout history regardless of race and religion be destroyed by sex scandals. These are men who could have gone on to achieve greater things and this represents a serious brain-drain to mankind! In this article, a solution to stem this brain-drain will be presented.
In the previous post, some rules for men to follow to protect their money from beautiful women who are employed as Sales tools were suggested. However, rules are useful only
if the rule follower is disciplined. How many married men can stay
disciplined when an irresistible seductress wraps her arms and legs
around him, then skilfully move towards to the soft trigger spots? Therefore, a solution cannot simply consist of moral rules like the 10 commandments. By the way, who can really follow the 10 commandments? Not even on Sunday!
Rich and successful men at the peak of their career are desirable takeover targets of scheming gold-diggers. Actually, to be fair to women, most of the time it is the men who request to be taken over. A viable solution would be to make the men who are desirable takeover targets become poison pills for the gold-digger women whether the men like it or not. This is to protect men from their own weaknesses. Even powerful men have a soft spot for sexy ladies.
The Woman's Charter entitles a woman to a big chunk of the husband's assets and his future income in a divorce. Yet this is not enough to scare the men into behaving themselves. One proposal is instead of getting the man to pay for his misdeeds, get the 3rd-party seductress to pay for the damages. Get the mistress to pay the wife if she sues for divorce. The man will pay for the remainder after the seductress has paid until she is bankrupt. By having such a law, no gold-digger woman would dare to seduce our men because it is going to dig a big hole in their own pockets. Thus, our men will be protected from sex scandals. I implore our law-makers to protect our local men by transforming them into poison pills to the gold-diggers.
This law provides an outlet to wives who want to get back at the mistresses who break up their families. There is no better way to do this than to sue the mistress to bankruptcy.
Singapore is known for its high density of high net-worth individuals. Foreign women might be attracted to come here to make money off our local rich men. Rather than suffer an outflow of wealth from our men's adultery, the country will at least enjoy an inflow of wealth by "levying a heavy fine" on foreign women for seducing our men and breaking up their families. Fair justice.
Some men may protest that such a law will take the fun out of their life. If they love their money and family, the only woman that a married man should allow himself to be seduced is his wife. All other women are simply too expensive. Some men may say they need an outlet and their wives simply cannot fulfill them on this aspect. I have a better idea. Go to the toilet and DIY (do-it-yourself). It is free of charge, risk-free (no fear getting sexually transmitted disease), no one will make snide remarks about your sexual performance, no need to synchronize with anyone, own time own target etc. Some men will still insist this is not enough and is a stupid idea. I will still repeat the same message in a blunter way - Go fuck yourself(literally) and get over with it.
hyom,
ReplyDeletePerhaps its your engineering background - your opinions tend to be in black and white from your tongue-in-cheek post.
It's interesting how your automatically assume it's the 3rd party who is doing the seducing. And its always about gold-digging ;)
If I am not a one woman man, I stay single.
If I get married, it's because of love. Not because my spouse has money, can help me in my career, or I can share in his/her halo.
There are gigolo married men and prostitute married women out there. They all married for money/status/power/stability, etc - not love.
Being "married" does not make a person holier than thou ;)
Affairs of the heart cannot be legislated or ruled in a court of law.
Whatever happened to Responsibility and Accountability?
For the sake of bringing across my point, I think I have unfairly painted most 3rd-party women as the guilty party and men as the victims. Although I did mention in my post that "Actually, to be fair to women, most of the time it is the men who request to be taken over", I did not emphasize much on this point because it is not the main message I want to put across.
DeleteWhere beautiful women are concerned, few men remain as gentlemen if they can get away with it. I remained faithful to my wife less because I am moral but more because I am deprived :). Should one day I get promoted to a position where there are plenty of temptations to receive sexual favors, I really cannot guarantee how I will behave even though I know very well what is the right thing to do. I think men who say otherwise are not being very honest with themselves.
Most of the time, men are the aggressors rather than the victims in sex scandals. This post has probably given readers the impression that men are usually the victims which is far from reality. However, the proposal of getting the 3rd-party women to pay for divorce damages will ensure that even in cases when men are the aggressors who actively seek out fun, no women will dare entertain them. In this way, men are protected from their own weaknesses with the fairer sex.
If I am not a one woman man, I stay single.
DeleteIf I get married, it's because of love. Not because my spouse has money, can help me in my career, or I can share in his/her halo.
This is good advice. With the Woman's charter, it is vital for men not to be married than risk marrying the wrong woman. It is very expensive to get rid of a bad wife. For men who cannot stay faithful, it is more cost-effective to be a swinging bachelor than to be sued for divorce multiple times in his life. With protective laws like the Woman's Charter for women, even a rich man will become poor from divorces.
As a friend, if a good woman comes along, I hope you can take the risk and find a woman whom you love and love you back.
Being "married" does not make a person holier than thou ;)
Affairs of the heart cannot be legislated or ruled in a court of law.
Whatever happened to Responsibility and Accountability?
Although being married does not make a person holier than thou, a married person had better be holier than a single because he has to bear the cost of divorce if he commits adultery.
If humans can be relied upon in matters of Responsibility and Accountability, then we can do away with all the laws in the world. Self-regulation will be enough.
While affairs of the heart cannot be legislated, since we already have the Woman's Charter to protect women, we might as well go all the way to tweak the Woman's Charter to protect men from their own folly as well.
Guys, just go and have fun, will you? Why are you bothering yourself with this kind of useless topic?
ReplyDeleteTo HYOM, don't judge other people. This is a free society. If you want to fuck yourself, do it. If you want to fuck other, do it. Just be aware of the consequences.
Best Regards.
Hi Anonymous at Monday, June 18, 2012 12:22:00 PM GMT+08:00,
ReplyDeleteI apologize if I sound too judgmental. I really am in no position to judge other people, particularly the talented and successful men who are more exposed to temptations. As I have mentioned before, I stayed faithful more likely because I am deprived :)
The trigger that drove me to write this article is the waste I see when talented men who could have went on to do great things are destroyed by sex scandals. In the aftermath of the great financial crisis of 2008, not a single banker was prosecuted in contrast to the prosecutions made after the dom.com craze busted. If Eliot Spitzer were still around, the guilty Wall Street guys would have been in jail now. Watch the documentary Client 9 on how Eliot Spitzer brought himself and his family down.
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ReplyDeleteI think its true that 2 hands needed to clap. The man will want the mistress, and the mistress will want his money. Both should be condemned!
ReplyDeleteI know of pretty women who do not have a qualm to bed a rich man. Without his $, the rich man is just an old man! Who e heck want to bed him. And best part is, the pretty women also has young bfs to go to after all this scandal, we simply dont have that kind of moral upbringing anymore in these times.
Though I cant say I am an angel, end of the day, the straying man should pay 50% and the mistress also pay 50% to the wife and children as fair compensation.
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